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Hey y'all,
Once upon a time... I had a dream to have my own space in my own house, free of spouse and ambient light, where it's just me and my game/movie with a bigass screen and mindblowing soundsystem.
I'm 31 years old and live in Belgium (the Dutch speaking part). Since 5 years, my girlfriend (we're not married) and myself own our own house. In 2012 we were blessed with a wonderful son. As things are settling, I've decided to build me my dream, My very own dedicated gaming/HT-room/mancave! Woot!
Great, so now I only have to convince the misses... She hates videogames, only likes chick flicks and her idea of top notch home cinema is the Bose soundsystem we have in our living room because "It's nice and small" (yes, that's also own fault *guilty as charged* I fell for the Bose trap)... Some months later, I actually managed to convince the wife, costing me only a very small piece of my soul. I could start dreaming again.
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As all rooms in our house are taken or not suited, the only thing for me to do is to expand our house. As this is Belgium, there are about a billion rules to follow, some of which are contradictory. I'ts very frustrating but there is, sadly enough, no way around it. As I have just embarked upon this daunting quest for bliss, I already noticed that the path is long and perilous. I'm looking forward to the moment that I can actually start physical labour.
The room itself will be an annex to my garage. Outside measurements will be 3,5m wide at 5m deep (approx. 11.5 ft wide at 16.4 ft deep). This will translate to inner measurements of roughly 3.2m x 4.7m or 10.5 ft wide by 15.4 ft deep.
I started reading up and dumbing down (no more Bose for me). I've only just scratched the surface as far as reading up goes here, but I've already found avs to be place of immense knowledge and inspiration. I would be honored to pick your collective minds for more as I'm sure to encounter all sorts of problems. Therefor, all hints tips and advice will be welcomed with gratitude.
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The actual room then.
The first MAJOR problem I encountered, and continue to encounter, is the WAF (Wife Approval Factor). This will perhaps sound familiar to you, regardless of where you live on this planet-or universe for that matter- but even though she doesn't want to have anything to do with the mancave, she sure as hell has an opnion on every freaking aspect about it... Most stuff is treated with the tried and trusted method of /ignore, HOWEVER... not this one. Oh no, she INSISTED on having A WINDOW (!) in the dedicated HT room...
*auch* That indeed was the sound of my dream getting shattered to pieces. Or not. So it basically came down to "no window, no HT". And as we all know, in the end we men have nothing to say. So I'll be welcoming a much hated window that will need to be able to function. I'll plug it from the inside with a removable panel of some sort.
I also started working on learning how to draw in 3D (using Sketchup-thanks Google), so I'll be able to show you the room and my general idea for it soon enough.
The room will be used for:
50% Gaming
45% Movies and Series
5% Music & Misc
The good thing is that I'll be building the room from scratch, so I can design most of it within the parameters of it's dimensions, apart from a door that has to be in 1 specific spot and a window that has to be on 1 particular wall.
Once upon a time... I had a dream to have my own space in my own house, free of spouse and ambient light, where it's just me and my game/movie with a bigass screen and mindblowing soundsystem.
I'm 31 years old and live in Belgium (the Dutch speaking part). Since 5 years, my girlfriend (we're not married) and myself own our own house. In 2012 we were blessed with a wonderful son. As things are settling, I've decided to build me my dream, My very own dedicated gaming/HT-room/mancave! Woot!
Great, so now I only have to convince the misses... She hates videogames, only likes chick flicks and her idea of top notch home cinema is the Bose soundsystem we have in our living room because "It's nice and small" (yes, that's also own fault *guilty as charged* I fell for the Bose trap)... Some months later, I actually managed to convince the wife, costing me only a very small piece of my soul. I could start dreaming again.
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As all rooms in our house are taken or not suited, the only thing for me to do is to expand our house. As this is Belgium, there are about a billion rules to follow, some of which are contradictory. I'ts very frustrating but there is, sadly enough, no way around it. As I have just embarked upon this daunting quest for bliss, I already noticed that the path is long and perilous. I'm looking forward to the moment that I can actually start physical labour.
The room itself will be an annex to my garage. Outside measurements will be 3,5m wide at 5m deep (approx. 11.5 ft wide at 16.4 ft deep). This will translate to inner measurements of roughly 3.2m x 4.7m or 10.5 ft wide by 15.4 ft deep.
I started reading up and dumbing down (no more Bose for me). I've only just scratched the surface as far as reading up goes here, but I've already found avs to be place of immense knowledge and inspiration. I would be honored to pick your collective minds for more as I'm sure to encounter all sorts of problems. Therefor, all hints tips and advice will be welcomed with gratitude.
---
The actual room then.
The first MAJOR problem I encountered, and continue to encounter, is the WAF (Wife Approval Factor). This will perhaps sound familiar to you, regardless of where you live on this planet-or universe for that matter- but even though she doesn't want to have anything to do with the mancave, she sure as hell has an opnion on every freaking aspect about it... Most stuff is treated with the tried and trusted method of /ignore, HOWEVER... not this one. Oh no, she INSISTED on having A WINDOW (!) in the dedicated HT room...

I also started working on learning how to draw in 3D (using Sketchup-thanks Google), so I'll be able to show you the room and my general idea for it soon enough.
The room will be used for:
50% Gaming
45% Movies and Series
5% Music & Misc
The good thing is that I'll be building the room from scratch, so I can design most of it within the parameters of it's dimensions, apart from a door that has to be in 1 specific spot and a window that has to be on 1 particular wall.