Sounds like you are really trying for the best. In your installation, the difference between the two switchers will NEVER be noticed. The performance in the range where your signal is located is so flat as to be un-noticeable. So buy the more expensive if you want to, but there is no way you would ever be able to see a difference. Also as far as cables go, if a manufacturer specs a cable as... 400MHz bandwidth... they are full of crap. Or at least the marketing department is getting carried away. A performance spec for cable reads... -2.9dB @200 MHZ over 100' if distance and loss is not given then it is meaningless. Anything other than a real attenuation spec is hype. THe other issue that is overlooked more is how tight is the impedance. is it right on at 75 ohm or is there some "play". As far as the difference between the VGA versus RGBHV. In a simple sense there is a difference between the two. it has to do with Shielding and Impedance. VGA connectors are not 75 ohm. BNC connectors are. In a small system like you have, i honestly don't think anybody could spot a difference. THe advantage to BNC though, is that you will know how good the grounding and shielding overall is. A neat trick people can try when using VGA cables is to get one that you are going to destroy... then use a knife and remove the moulding from one of the connectors, then look at the shield over the connector itself. If you have a casing, go for it, if there is some nasty looking foil, then the odds of picking up noise increase dramatically. Having said all this, in a home environment i don't think that you will see a difference.
Hope this helps.
Chris
Hope this helps.
Chris