In theory, a pure digital connection is superior to another that has a D/A conversion (done by your typical HT receiver, unless you get a pure digital receiver). For devices with DVI/HDMI output such as DVD players and HD receivers, preserving the digital path throughout WILL offer superior PQ.
If you still want to route everything through your receiver, then I'd suggest one with Faroudja's DCDi Processing, such as an HK 7300 (I had a chance to demo this, and it was awesome) or a Yamaha Z9 or Denon 5805. They are all flagships for their respective companies, so one can expect top performance and high premium.
All modern midrange HT receiver will offer at least 3 component inputs. Video performance will not be noticable. The difference between them will be in audio: some have more features, some will work with your speakers better than the others,...
Check out the Audio/Receiver forum. I'm sure someone there will suggest that you go separates
