The statement that a coupler should not affect the picture is false. HDMI will only certify 3D on cable lengths of 5 Ms or less. Anything above 5M may or may not work. Also, when it comes to couplers, currently no one makes a true "high speed" coupler. I've had personal experience with this in the field. You may get the picture just fine, but the audio drops in and out.
I've sold a few 3D setups now and I'm becoming well versed in the limitations and hiccups. If you can move the equipment to within 25 feet of the display you'll save yourself a lot of headaches.
Sincerely,
Bob Gallo
Mountain High Sound & Vision