sourbeef,
What we mean by x db hot is a relative measurement of SPL in decibels. How many more decibels loud is your subwoofer that your main speakers.
This is different than the subwoofer trim level on the receiver, which is what you are referring to.
The actaul measured SPL level of the subwoofer is a result of the gain control setting on the subwoofer amp, and the subwoofer trim level on the receiver. Once the relative SPL is calibrated, then the receiver trim can be used to raise or lower that level by specific amounts + or - db. So yes, they do work together in tandem. For example, I run my sub with the gain knob on the subwoofer amp at about the 9:00 position, and the subwoofer trim level on the receiver at -2.0 , which together yield a calibrated subwoofer SPL level which is approximately 3 db louder, or "hot", relative to my main speakers.
Tim